3 Types of People to Stay Away From… If You Want A Better Life
In life, who you surround yourself with can have a big effect on your happiness, success, and overall well-being. While it’s important to have empathy for those going through tough times, there are certain types of people whose energy can drag you down if you’re not careful. If you’re focused on leveling up, here are three types of people to avoid if you want to keep your life on track.
1. The Complainer
We all know that person who finds something wrong with everything. They land a new job and instead of being excited, they immediately start griping about how the office is too cold, the commute is too long, or their coworkers are annoying. The same thing happens in their relationships—they meet someone new, and before they even give the person a chance, they’re turned off by the tiniest flaw.
Complainers see life through a negative lens. They drain your energy because they are constantly looking for what’s wrong instead of what’s right. If you spend too much time with complainers, you’ll find yourself adopting the same negative outlook. Your mindset will shift from seeing opportunities to seeing obstacles, which will ultimately hold you back. Instead of surrounding yourself with people who only see the bad, find those who are solution-oriented and grateful for the good in their lives.
2. The Bad Luck Person
This type of person is always going through it—no matter what they try to do, things never seem to work out. Their car breaks down on the way to an important meeting, they lose their wallet right before they get paid, and their relationships seem to always fall apart in dramatic fashion. At first, you might feel bad for them, and it’s easy to think they’re just going through a tough season. But after a while, you notice that this isn’t just a phase—this is their life.
The truth is, some people carry bad energy. It’s not that they’re bad people, but their mindset, actions, or even outlook on life might attract the chaos they experience. If you’re constantly around someone with this kind of energy, it can start to rub off on you. You may find yourself in more stressful situations, with things “just happening” out of nowhere. Protect your peace by being mindful of who you allow into your space, and avoid getting sucked into their storm.
3. The Jealous Person
Jealousy is a silent killer in any relationship. The jealous person doesn’t celebrate your wins—in fact, they might secretly hope you fail. If you get a promotion, buy a new car, or even just look happy, you’ll notice them trying to downplay your success. They might say things like, “It must be nice” or “Well, I would’ve done it better if I had the same opportunities.”
Jealousy breeds negativity, and being around someone who is always envious of what others have is toxic. They are not only incapable of being happy for you, but they might also sabotage your growth, whether intentionally or not. Instead of surrounding yourself with jealousy, keep people close who genuinely root for you and push you to be your best self. True friends will celebrate your victories and help you through your losses, not secretly envy you from the sidelines.
Final Thoughts
The people (family included) you keep around you can either help you elevate or hold you back. Avoid complainers, bad luck magnets, and jealous individuals if you want to live a better, more fulfilled life. Surround yourself with those who bring out the best in you, and your journey will be filled with growth, positivity, and success.
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